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Sunday, December 27, 2009

TIgger Woods and Interracial/Cultural Dating


As a male from a very different cultural background than USA I sometimes wonder about the differences in cultures.
I mean for example take Tiger Woods? He did not only marry a white girl, he married a Swedish girl.
Think about it, with so many interracial barriers between black and white, I work as a cuckold Mandingo fetish escort, I also have to think about the cultural aspects.
I married a beautiful girl and we deal not only with interracial aspects but also international cultural aspects.
She is used to American men and dating, I am used to a whole different cultural language and rule set when to dating.
When people say I like French men, Italian men. I always wonder if they are thinking about ethnicity or color. I run into this constantly with my wife, we just don’t understand each other culturally, I can’t understand her behavior or she mine at times and I swear that I think American men must be bestowed with some kinds of mind reading capabilities. Basically culturally we express ourselves different.

I can imagine that in Tiger Woods mind he thought, fuck yeah I crewed up, I just give her more money.
I am not knocking capitalism, but for a Swedish woman from a socialist democratic country where everything is almost equal, maybe money does not factor in so much.
Where here in USA money is everything almost.
I live in New York, the financial capital in the most capitalistic country in the world.

I would be a fool to not think that money and capital, my worth does not permutated every aspect of every relationship.
On all levels.

I am not justifying or vilifying Tiger, I work as an escort, and I do get money for services, but not intimacy. That cant be bought unfortunately although clients try and try.
But I am just saying that maybe Tigers mindset is different from a Swedish mindset. And that thinking of I have money, I am king might hurt him in the end if she walks away.

I see it again and again, men with money that think they are impervious to the trials and tribulations of the common man, due to the fact that they live in a capitalistic society. I wonder how this would have been perceived in another culture.
All I can say is that Tiger made a big mistake when he started trying to have relationships with these women, you don’t give the mistress the same respect and attention as your wife, that’s just disrespectful. You don’t write love letters to them, you don’t get involved.
Here is where escorts come in, we just pretend, we know your heart and soul should belong to your wife or husband. And if not, please don’t stray.
Respect the one your with, she gets a seat at the table, not me, not any escort. We get paid, to go away, not to come.
Poor Tiger..but hey he has turned all the geek brothers to pimps.
Redefining the game hahaha, I bet some girls with “well polished” brothers are now wondering WTF…

Men, Women, And Cuckold Fetishists: Male Prostitutes Speak Out


Here is an excerpt of the story..
The full story can be found here....
Daily Beast Male Hookers



Apropos of HBO's Hung, The Daily Beast's Tracy Quan spoke with several male prostitutes about their experiences. Among the revelations: a male hooker can make money having sex with women, but he may have to resort to some unpleasant gimmicks.

Quan, an ex-call girl herself, gets her interviewees to dish not just on the quirks of sex work (for instance, some female virgins pay a professional for their first time), but also on gender and race. One male former prostitute, Andrew Rosetta, said his job "would have been a part-time pursuit if I only saw women." Interestingly, he found that when he told his girlfriends about his job, they were more uncomfortable with him servicing women than men. One girlfriend forbade him from seeing female clients at all. With the clients themselves, though, the situation was reversed — the women Rosetta saw professionally didn't want to know that he also slept with men.

Damien Decker, an escort working in New York, takes a different approach. He has sex with female escorts while his male clients watch. "Everybody thinks what I do is so cool," he says, "but there's a racist aspect." Decker is a European black man who usually pretends to be African-American on the job, and his partners are white women who pretend to be a client's wife or girlfriend. Thus, the clients are paying for the fantasy of being cuckolded by a black man. Since these clients never touch Decker, his business model bears out the notion that sex is as much mental and physical — but that doesn't make his job any less disturbing.

Going Straight....

I recently decided to become straight, as in work. This lifestyle is crazy.
I try to find a normal job, be respectful, I know I can work hard hehe..
Anyways that didn’t go so good. I got fired on my second day. It was actually pure torture to try to pull in a 8 hour day, I feel rotten to the core, I changed so much by escorting? Sex Work? That I cant appreciate hard earned money, well I have to try again, what to say to the in laws? Umm hey this is Damien my husband and he has skills in multiple positions ? I recently discovered how my resume sucks, I have lots of experience but no real life experience. I am pretty good at marketing yes and I could probably own my own business but what do I say for work experience? references? Crazy, life as a escort always looks better in movies, speaking of check out my interview on the new show Hung, I know its pretty old but I didn’t post it before...
Its hard and trying to go straight, although I had great fun with escorting and sex work, one only lasts so long.

Marriage


I have gotten married!!!!
She looks kind of like this ;)

Ohh about my wife and work..
My wife is wonderful, she is all kinds of beautiful and make me want to be a better man, she is exotic and 22 years old only. But scary smart, much so than me and she is a pacific islander. She makes me want to be a better man and she is my best friend. She makes me so happy, she is a brat but she has my heart, thoughts and well MY MONEY !!!

Gia my wife, she works also and we do the sex shows, and four hand massages, so my life hasn’t changed much. But some clients have been little stand off cause she is my wife. And I think I lost some regulars because they kind of thought they shared a naughty bond, or some kind of boys will be boys attitude with me. I also gained some clients that feel that ist safer to see a real life escort couple.
I do still work with other females, and she works independently also in massage.
I cant believe I am married…