TIgger Woods and Interracial/Cultural Dating

As a male from a very different cultural background than USA I sometimes wonder about the differences in cultures.
I mean for example take Tiger Woods? He did not only marry a white girl, he married a Swedish girl.
Think about it, with so many interracial barriers between black and white, I work as a cuckold Mandingo fetish escort, I also have to think about the cultural aspects.
I married a beautiful girl and we deal not only with interracial aspects but also international cultural aspects.
She is used to American men and dating, I am used to a whole different cultural language and rule set when to dating.
When people say I like French men, Italian men. I always wonder if they are thinking about ethnicity or color. I run into this constantly with my wife, we just don’t understand each other culturally, I can’t understand her behavior or she mine at times and I swear that I think American men must be bestowed with some kinds of mind reading capabilities. Basically culturally we express ourselves different.

I can imagine that in Tiger Woods mind he thought, fuck yeah I crewed up, I just give her more money.
I am not knocking capitalism, but for a Swedish woman from a socialist democratic country where everything is almost equal, maybe money does not factor in so much.
Where here in USA money is everything almost.
I live in New York, the financial capital in the most capitalistic country in the world.

I would be a fool to not think that money and capital, my worth does not permutated every aspect of every relationship.
On all levels.

I am not justifying or vilifying Tiger, I work as an escort, and I do get money for services, but not intimacy. That cant be bought unfortunately although clients try and try.
But I am just saying that maybe Tigers mindset is different from a Swedish mindset. And that thinking of I have money, I am king might hurt him in the end if she walks away.

I see it again and again, men with money that think they are impervious to the trials and tribulations of the common man, due to the fact that they live in a capitalistic society. I wonder how this would have been perceived in another culture.
All I can say is that Tiger made a big mistake when he started trying to have relationships with these women, you don’t give the mistress the same respect and attention as your wife, that’s just disrespectful. You don’t write love letters to them, you don’t get involved.
Here is where escorts come in, we just pretend, we know your heart and soul should belong to your wife or husband. And if not, please don’t stray.
Respect the one your with, she gets a seat at the table, not me, not any escort. We get paid, to go away, not to come.
Poor Tiger..but hey he has turned all the geek brothers to pimps.
Redefining the game hahaha, I bet some girls with “well polished” brothers are now wondering WTF…

Men, Women, And Cuckold Fetishists: Male Prostitutes Speak Out

Here is an excerpt of the story..
The full story can be found here....
Daily Beast Male Hookers



Apropos of HBO's Hung, The Daily Beast's Tracy Quan spoke with several male prostitutes about their experiences. Among the revelations: a male hooker can make money having sex with women, but he may have to resort to some unpleasant gimmicks.

Quan, an ex-call girl herself, gets her interviewees to dish not just on the quirks of sex work (for instance, some female virgins pay a professional for their first time), but also on gender and race. One male former prostitute, Andrew Rosetta, said his job "would have been a part-time pursuit if I only saw women." Interestingly, he found that when he told his girlfriends about his job, they were more uncomfortable with him servicing women than men. One girlfriend forbade him from seeing female clients at all. With the clients themselves, though, the situation was reversed — the women Rosetta saw professionally didn't want to know that he also slept with men.

Damien Decker, an escort working in New York, takes a different approach. He has sex with female escorts while his male clients watch. "Everybody thinks what I do is so cool," he says, "but there's a racist aspect." Decker is a European black man who usually pretends to be African-American on the job, and his partners are white women who pretend to be a client's wife or girlfriend. Thus, the clients are paying for the fantasy of being cuckolded by a black man. Since these clients never touch Decker, his business model bears out the notion that sex is as much mental and physical — but that doesn't make his job any less disturbing.

Going Straight....

I recently decided to become straight, as in work. This lifestyle is crazy.
I try to find a normal job, be respectful, I know I can work hard hehe..
Anyways that didn’t go so good. I got fired on my second day. It was actually pure torture to try to pull in a 8 hour day, I feel rotten to the core, I changed so much by escorting? Sex Work? That I cant appreciate hard earned money, well I have to try again, what to say to the in laws? Umm hey this is Damien my husband and he has skills in multiple positions ? I recently discovered how my resume sucks, I have lots of experience but no real life experience. I am pretty good at marketing yes and I could probably own my own business but what do I say for work experience? references? Crazy, life as a escort always looks better in movies, speaking of check out my interview on the new show Hung, I know its pretty old but I didn’t post it before...
Its hard and trying to go straight, although I had great fun with escorting and sex work, one only lasts so long.

Marriage

I have gotten married!!!!
She looks kind of like this ;)

Ohh about my wife and work..
My wife is wonderful, she is all kinds of beautiful and make me want to be a better man, she is exotic and 22 years old only. But scary smart, much so than me and she is a pacific islander. She makes me want to be a better man and she is my best friend. She makes me so happy, she is a brat but she has my heart, thoughts and well MY MONEY !!!

Gia my wife, she works also and we do the sex shows, and four hand massages, so my life hasn’t changed much. But some clients have been little stand off cause she is my wife. And I think I lost some regulars because they kind of thought they shared a naughty bond, or some kind of boys will be boys attitude with me. I also gained some clients that feel that ist safer to see a real life escort couple.
I do still work with other females, and she works independently also in massage.
I cant believe I am married…

Guest author

I am going to have a guest author..
Its Gia, my favorite little masseuse..
and partner..
I asked her to write a lil about what she thinks about business of Pleasure from a female view and how its different for males and female.... and her adventures( not anything about me...)

Stay tuned to hear more form her and an introduction...

BTW I have my first memoir reading on the 6th..I am exited but nervous as well....

Sometimes life is good...

Sometimes I really feel good about work, and that when you encounter a client like Will...
He is so cool and I really enjoy the scene or sessions with him.
Its thanks to the fact that he really gets into it and also that he is so exited. I seen him cum twice now without even touching himself.
He is a lifestyle cuckold and is so vividly into the action that I almost have to laugh he comes up with these crazy scenarios that are so fun. The biggest part of it is thanks to my cute partner Gia...
She is awesome and is the best actress I meet. She is totally new but really good at role playing Wills wife...
Off course I get to play with her and that's fun, she got a great body and a sexy smile....

Ohh almost forgot here is the detailed request...Its funny but so cool and strangely hot...
( trust me I had weird people request siomilair but with Will and with Gia..its normal kind of...not weird, normal...)
King Damien

THe request( for real...)

I would like the fantasy to start out with my wife coming out to living room all dressed up like a slut and I say " hey you are dressed like you want to fuck" and she says we need to talk . She is wearing tight micro miniskirt ( black if possible ), Thigh highs ( Black ), satin panties, and fuck me pumps. She sits down next to me on couch. She teases me with neck kisses and sticking her ass in my face, prancing around in front of me showing off her legs and skirt just inches from my face. Then sitting down and letting me run my hand under skirt, touching her panties , spreading her legs...
Then when she has got me HOTT so as to totally humiliate me she drops the bomb !!!!

She eventually tells me she has been fucking a Black stud for weeks behind my back. she met him at work, all the other white married girls have black stud lovers. She explains that my cock just does not do it. She craves big Black Cock. She repeats over and over again that EVERY white girl she knows is fucking BIG BLACK COCK behind their white husbands backs. She thought it was time to have him over to get this in open. he is coming over any minute, Door knock stud enters and wife runs over to him and kisses him as he grabs her ass and pulls her skirt up for me to see what I am not getting, I am in shock when he tells her to get down and take out cock and suck it ....she looks back to me smiles and says " yes sir " . She than sucks his cock like it is the last cock on earth. She purposely looks back at me and stares at me before saying " this is a real cock asshole ! "My wife tells me to get down on knees next to her for a better view of her sucking a real cock. She then says you should pay your respect to black dick and suck it also. If stud does not like how I suck he spanks me in front of my wife while she laughs and calls me a PUSSY and stud is real man here!!!

My wife is than taken to bed , her skirt pulled up and spanked. The stud makes her say things out loud to humiliate me even further.......She is made to say ...."I am you slut...your are my Black Cock Master... You OWN my white ass....Please fuck me.....I will do anything you say...Just please fuck me"....as she gets spanked in front of me....I realize she is not mine anymore.

During long fuck session I must endure putting his cock in and out of my wife's pussy, playing with his nuts while she rides him, when she pulls off him I am told to look close at how well fucked her pussy is and then stroke his cock before putting back in to my "begging for more " whore wife. She screams out how much she LOVES Black Cock the whole time she is getting fucked.

She gets enjoyment out of me jerking stud's big cock and calls me a fag. She laughs and asks if I like black cock and makes me answer yes. She says fuck you queer boy this is my cock and takes it from me.

Sometime at end I jerk stud off in my wife's mouth and she swallows and loves it. I am told this is how life will be and my wife will be living with stud in master bedroom for now on and I will sleep on couch. If I continue to pay the rent and all the bills She will let me watch her get fucked every night. I agree and she says I knew you would understand and feels bad for me and offers me some relief. My wife gives me a sympathy blow job.

I LOVE THIS GUY..
;)

Truth vs. Fiction

As a male involved in this buisness I am constantly suprised over the misconceptions that "civilians" have of us.
First men in sex work are not sexual freaks or crazy I have a relationship of sorts and I am very faithful in a way...
Another misconception is that girls do this for fun and are drug free....
I have yet meet a single "partner" or escort that's drugfree and the drug of choice is cocaine or heroin...
Trust me there are allot of rich white cocaine and heroin addicted girls especially heroin. All you need to pass inspewction is to look white and all american and cute. When they start escorting they are at the cliff the moments before they end up in the park.
Seriously in reality not every girl dreams about sleeping with older men for fun. Escorts have problems....
As far as male workers the drug use tends to be less..why because we need to get hard...
Drugs are the perfect afrodisiac though it enables one not to feel or care about what is happening to yourself...so yes escorts use drugs allot. In movies we are always so happy and sexual becasue that's what sells but wich client wants to know that their 500 an hour girl is a crack addict or shoots dope?
No one and they don't care....
I could talk about all the fun I had but I would rather keep it real. Its like that porn star jessica james that's heralded like an all american cutie and just sexual by nature and then she shows up on celebrity rehab drugged up and almost passing out...its like that....

No one wants a reality tv show to be real...I deal in fanatsy and in some cases that's giving the audience what they want and tricking myself to belive that the girls are not fucked up....

In reality it never matters I have yet to meet a client that could tell if the girl was on dope or cocaine...they usually think she is drunk or nervous...most clients are the geeks of high school so to speak and now they got money and ability to live their fantasies and come from an era when it was easy to tell the addicts from the good girls...
Now the addicts dress like abercrombie and fitch girls next door....
What a tangled web...of deceit...but the show must go on...its for their pleasure after all...

So WTF have i been up to lately?

I was interviewed by The Daily Beast about male escorts, talked to National Geographic about males and sex work...
Got contacted and approached by the Tyra Banks Show about it....

Ohh and I became published twice one article in Spread Magazine about my experiences...and another in Unhoused Voices an anthologhy to benefit homless and street walkers.

I have off course worked on my memoir with my co authour Tom Wallace and my mentor David Henry Sterry. I had to turn fown the Tyra Banks show as of now becasue I can't have my face on TV or anything...but I was happy to hear that they where intrested in me.

Oh I also meet the most beautiful creature ever an little angel" Nikki she makes me want to be a better man...
I will work hard on that...(No pun intended...seriously...)

Sadly I lost two friends also one to cocaine and one" my private sunshine" just hates me since I am still in this buisness and she has found the light and got out and now she is all I am better than you!!!
It is what it is....

I am happy and I think I am in love.... She makes me very happy...

Men vs Women

Ok going to clarify a couple of things....
And that's fiction versus real life between male escorts and female escorts....
I will speak the truth and nothing but the truth......
Ok sorry but all wannabee male escorts prepare to have your dreams shattered....

* Men make about 1/3 of what females make( female gets 400/male gets 100)

* I been paid about 3-4 times to be with a female one on one. (Women don't pay for sex and companionship really... This aint the 70's dude.... )

* What you are doing is something EVERY guy thinks he can do better and should get paid for....( Every guy thinks they are God's gift in bed to women...not every woman agrees...)

* Its like porn every guy thinks they can do it...but not everyone is able..find a niche is not easy and its through invitation only...

* There are 20-1 ratio of female to male escorts and most male escorts are gay or bi....
(If you can't work with men your starving..)

* The good news is there are like zero straight escorts out there the field is wide open...the bad news is there is not any work out there....

* The good news is there is a way to make even more then females !!!! The bad news is ( if your straight) you will be serving men ....

This battle between the sexes will be continueed....

Back in Smut

Craigslist have changed. With so much exposure on craigslist and everything tthats been happening all my female friends have fled to agencies. Professional sites or become sugarbabes( there are legal sites for legal prostitution actually)
I have been out of buisness since january but been broke and now back at it again...

I wish I could say it was becasue of popular demand....
But no I'm broke and all regulars are comming back, becasue of craigslist have changed so much. Gone are the college girls and now its only professionals. Its funny I am in the world of make belief and fantasy fulfilment...and all my clients do is to pay to be able to be real....